6.04.2014

"Funny Things" courtesy of Karen Stephens

In honor of my mom's recent birthday, I thought I'd show my affection for her in the Stephens family love language: by making fun of her. So here goes.

Every time I see my mom, ESPECIALLY at large family gatherings, I am on watch.  I like to linger near her as she converses with others, or sit attentive if she decides to tell a story.  If she starts to offer advice or make demands I will drop everything and circle round to bear witness because it will almost assuredly happen then: Karen Ann Ellis Stephens will say something incredibly funny, shocking, outrageous, inaccurate, and/or offensive-without-meaning-to-be.

Disclaimer: Before you think I am cruel and heartless to rat out my mom like this, you need to understand one thing: no one finds her ridiculous comments as hilarious as SHE DOES.  That's right folks, she laughs harder at herself than we do.

1. Never far from trendy vernacular, my mom told me one day, "Your butt called me yesterday."  (I sincerely hope this doesn't need explanation, but I think what she meant was, "you butt dialed me yesterday.")

2. While visiting one day she said of Navy, "are you sure she isn't a little person?"  I asked for clarification and she said in a concerned, hushed tone, "you know....a midget?"

3. While being made fun of by her favorite child (Jack) she was exasperated and declared, "JACK! Stop putting jokes on me!"

4. During a phone conversation recently she interrupted me and said, "I have to go now. My ear is sore."

5. Recently my parent's car died because the dome light was left on & drained the battery. While Luke & my Dad were getting ready to jump it my mom started yelling for their attention from inside the car.  My dad opened the door and she said, "CASEY! I can't breathe in here.  Can you leave the door open?"  He explained that he couldn't because the dome light would be left on, draining the battery.  Then she asked if he could perhaps just start the car (!) and roll down the window.  Sigh.

6. She told Jack that his son was the most beautiful of her grandchildren.  He immediately told me & Ash.  When we confronted Mom she didn't have the wherewithal to maintain a straight face or lie.  Instead she defaulted to her standby move: put your hand over your eyes, look down, and giggle.

7. Of the Bible she once advised, "Well you can't believe everything you read."

8. She recently told me fond childhood stories of a pink piggy bank she has had since third grade that she wanted to pass on to Navy.  When I got to her house she reverently handed me the piggy bank.  I turned it over.  On the bottom it says, "A.S."  Because it is the piggy bank my sister painted in 2008, Mom's nostalgia notwithstanding.

That's all I can think of for now.  Next up will be a more respectable "What I've Learned From My Mom" post.  Then after that maybe I'll try to compile her endless volumes of parenting advice (which includes "give them water" and "brush and braid her hair every night" and other such obvious and implausible guidelines for raising children.)

I love you mom!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

oh you little shit. do i need to explain everything i say living with me you should understand by now. you know i take my faith very seriously i meant the parables used to teach the people lesons. i don't know how many times i have to explain this to all of you kids. it is just i sometimes speak before i think. in regards to my parenting advice you three turned out great so hush, listen and learn. i love you so much. laughter is good for the soul. ooxx mom